miércoles, julio 21, 2004
[ 615. Hurts ]
Abt the opposite sex...
My friend..one of us lah...once said to me..and i still remember...that she said me and azreen should stop degrading the guys that hurt us...that we're always on this feminist crusade..that we should take a step back and maybe see that the problem may lie wif us..
true...i agreed at that time..
but now i took a step back and realised sumthin..so i want to tell this fren of mine...that firstly i love her to death..and that i know she might not be reading this now...but i'm still goin to say it aniwae..
i guess u never told us much abt whether u ever got hurt by a guy b4..u just sorta found out he was interested in sumone else..and that turned u off..and now u are completely adverse to guys in general..
so let me tell u that.....u were not hurt like us...maybe u were...but not to the extent that we were..i think az n lulu were the worst hit...i'm still ok..
i dunno...u hide alot of ur emotions from us...so maybe u did hurt as much as us...that's why u should understand wat we're going thru rite?
but if u weren't...then u haf to try and understand the pain...it's not sumthin u can take very lightly...
that's why we are so anti-men sumtimes..because it's our only defence mechanism against them..and we do it together..bcos we're stronger in numbers...
until u can understand...then i guess u won't get it why we are looking for someone..
Well... can't really identify with that since i don't have that problem... haha... but i do know of people who have this problem as well...
guys... straight and gay alike... just have this fondness of 'multi-tasking'... just another day one of my aj friends just started telling me about how heartbroken he is over this guy who seems so promising to him... and just as about something is going to happen, that guy went steady with someone else... i mean, c'mon la guys. Get your act together... stop acting like the kings of the world. Does the word loyalty and faithfulness ring a bell...? i mean... yes, you tell me its affairs of the hearts are rarely controllable... and i'm telling you its bullshit. You just want to have the best of both worlds... and you wanna choose. Hello... these are people's feelings that we are talking about... not any shirt that comes in different shades. You don't take people like you take two shirts into the fitting room, try them, decide that you like both of them, and even wanted to buy both of them. Then when you realize that you have only enough cash for one, you throw the other back... no, that's not how it works my dear alpha males... wait wait, i need to make a disclaimer first... i'm not supporting any women's lib (though i sound like i'm damn pro-feminism) but its just that... how often do you hear people complain about girls cheating on them...? Almost never... But then again... this is not meant to be a blanket accusation as well... there are still guys out there who are nice... sensitive... soft but firm... and all kinds that appeal to gals (and ajs alike). but i have to agree its getting increasingly tougher to be a gal nowadays... apart from competition from other gals they still have to fight competition of ajs... haha... and pool of good guys is really diminishing at an exponential rate.
After all, the old saying goes... all the good guys are either married or ajs. =)
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